How to Prepare for your Engagement Photoshoot

The main objective of an  engagement session is to capture the celebration of  love between two people that have decided to spend the rest of their lives together. However, as wedding photographers, it can also be a way to get to know our clients and break the ice before documenting the big day.

After photographing hundreds of engagements I decided to put together a list of a few things that I think may help better prepare you for your engagement photoshoot.


Wardrobe can make or break imagery.

Pick an outfit that speaks to your personality. It is most important to feel comfortable and confident in what you are wearing. If you are uncomfortable it will show on the camera. Neutral tones or muted colors photograph really well. Stay away from anything too bright or too trendy. Think of something classic and timeless. When you are looking back at these photos in 10 years you do not want them to age because of wardrobe. When in doubt, ask our opinion. We would love to help.


 Hair and Makeup

Keep makeup simple. I believe you should look like yourself in your engagement photos and on your wedding day. Don’t overdue your eyes with big lashes, and dark shadow. Try and schedule your bridal trial run with your hair and makeup artist for the day of your engagement session.. This is a good way to get some use out of your hair and makeup and also look camera ready.


 Date night
Think of your engagement photoshoot as unique date. If you want to plan a picnic or dance to some love songs on a mountaintop, we are all for it! Try to spend time with connecting with your partner hours before the photoshoot. Not only does it give you time to warm up romantically,  but will also allow you to meet your photographer feeling ready and relaxed. It will lighten up the mood and make for some really lovely imagery filled with lots of connection and love.


Make sure to eat before the session
Be sure to eat before your photoshoot. This is very important. Many of our engagement sessions involve a hike to the photo location. Photos generally take an hour, but with driving to and from the location and the possibility of a hike, the entire experience can last for much longer than that. If you are hangry during the session it could show in the final product. So grab a bite to eat at your favorite spot. Get drinks, relax, and have fun before we meet up for your photoshoot.


Location is everything

Picking a location that you have some sort of connection to is really important. It can be a place where you like to  picnic, a hike you really enjoy together, brunch at home in your comfies, somewhere you have always wanted to visit, picking blueberries, biking, or canoeing. The possibilities are endless. Let us know your interests and we can help brainstorm a location. To see home examples of North Carolina engagement photoshoot locations click here.


Try to plan the session for Golden Hour.

Try to time  your photoshoot around sunset. Golden hour is generally defined as the hour just before the sun sets. This is a glorious and romantic time of day. Sunset not only photographs really well as it offers a diffused light, but also sets the mood for a dreamy evening with your love in a stunning location.


Hire the right photographer

Choosing the right person to document your engagement session is highly important. Just as the act of becoming engaged itself was a monumental event, the photos of its celebration should be ones that you will want to look back on for years and years to come. Having said that, professionally taken photos are the most ideal medium to accomplish that.

If you should choose to hire a professional photographer to take your engagement photos, I would suggest hiring the same photographer that is documenting your wedding. This will allow you to get to know the person that will be capturing one of the biggest days of your life. It will also ensure that your engagement photos and wedding photos will blend together seamlessly.  

When you are shopping around for a photographer, it is usually best to first look at the theme of their bodies of work and find one that really vibes with your personality. Once you have found the one, then you can contact them and begin to work out the pricing details. Generally it is more economical to book both shoots at the same time as more often than not, they can come as part of the same package.


 Let us know before the shoot about any personal concerns

As photographers we want you to get the absolute best out of your photography sessions with us. This includes us wanting you to be as thrilled as possible with the final product. My main motto for successful shoots is: Comfort is key. If a subject is comfortable with me, their attire, and themselves, the photos will be exponentially better than if they spend the entire session in discomfort. We want to know about any and all concerns you may have. Please be as specific as possible.

If you are extremely nervous about having your photo taken professionally, tell us and we can recommend some tips to take off some of the stress. If you are self conscious about a part of your body or appearance, let us know and we can adjust the shoot to conform to what makes you feel the most photogenic. We hardly ever have subjects that are poised and confident coming into a session so we know how it goes. Please do not be afraid to come to us with anything. We are more than happy to help!


 After you have received your photos

Once you have received the finished product and are as pleased as we hope you will be with them, odds are you will want to share them on some format of social media or another. That is totally understandable. Share away! There are just a couple things to consider before doing so. In post, we work very hard trying to make the photos capture your vision. Please stay away from social media photo editing or filters as they can reduce the quality of the image and aberrate from the overall theme of the photos. Also please do not post screenshots of online versions of the pictures as that will make them look grainy from loss of quality. Lastly, when posting your photos, if you wanted to give us photo credit, we would not mind one bit; in fact we would love that as it helps us connect with people who might want similar work done.

When you look back on the beginning of your marriage, you will want to remember how it all began and an engagement session is one of the best ways to always cherish that memory. As with other tip guides I have done, no tip or trick is mandatory or one or two may not be right for each individual. These are merely meant to be a nudge in the right direction. As always, do not be afraid to contact us with any questions you might have!


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We are Briana and Matthew. Based out of Asheville, North Carolina. Your Wedding and engagement photography experience is important to us. We would love the opportunity to talk with you and learn more about your story.

Briana Autran